Child’s Popularity May Rely on Understanding Others

Child's Popularity May Rely on Understanding Others

WEDNESDAY, April 15, 2015 (HealthDay News) — Children who are tuned in to what others want, think and feel are more popular in school than those who aren’t as good at understanding others, a new review indicates.

“Our study suggests that understanding others’ mental perspectives may facilitate the kind of interactions that help children become or remain popular,” said review leader Virginia Slaughter, head of the psychology department of the University of Queensland in Australia.

For the report, published April 15 in the journal Child Development, researchers analyzed 20 studies that included nearly 2,100 children aged 2 to 10 in Asia, Australia, Europe and North America.

The strength of the link between being able to figure out what others think and feel and popularity was similar for preschoolers and older children. This suggests that this ability is important for making friends at an early age and maintaining friendships as children get older, Slaughter said.

“Our findings suggest that training children to be sensitive to others’ thoughts and feelings may improve their relationships with peers,” Slaughter said in a journal news release. “This may be particularly important for children who are struggling with friendship issues, such as children who are socially isolated.”

The researchers also found that this link was weaker among boys than girls, which may reflect gender differences in how children relate to one another. Girls’ friendships often feature higher levels of closeness and conflict resolution, which may mean they need to be better at understanding others’ thoughts and feelings, the investigators said.

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